Hi there a very big welcome back from me and my sincere apologies for being away for such a long time! I have been toying with the idea for ages of starting my blog again, the last time I posted was January 2023 which was over a year ago now! So we have lots to catch up on! 🙂
This first blog post will literally be a chatty one just telling you what’s been happening and general updates which I hope you will enjoy reading about and I have an exciting one! So I am so excited to share with you and I have many ideas in the pipeline for more blog posts! I can’t promise anything but I would like to be more consistent with this so watch this space, as I’ve missed so much writing on here! I guess I should start with my most important update….
We’re ENGAGED!

So even though my last post I posted was in January 2023, this actually happened on Christmas Day 2022! Now I was going to do a whole blog post on my proposal and everything but life really did get in the way and two years later I am now finally writing this! I don’t know how I am even supposed to write about this as there is so much to say! Was I shocked yes, did I cry? Yes, but when the shock settled I did. I was expecting it but not on that day, but I knew it would happen soon as me and Liam had nearly been together for 5 years so I was expecting it soon. The day he proposed I actually was on the near end of having Covid which I had escaped nearly 3 years of not getting, but I was feeling marginally better by this point. I think I was negative by this point as we went on a walk after opening our gifts we decided to budget that year as we just recently got our house…little did I know Liam went over the budget anyways! But we went on a walk and unbeknown to me I had a shower before we left, Liam had snuck the ring box under the Christmas tree skirt. I had no clue! When we came back I think I was distracted in our kitchen and he said “Oh there is one more present to open”, I was like “What are you talking about?” and as I turned around Liam was down on one knee asking me to marry him! I was so in shock that I said to him before he opened the box “What’s that a necklace?” he still till this day makes fun and says you really wanted that necklace didn’t you? It was the most special surprise and it was made more special as this was our first Christmas together in our first new home with our Russian blue cat Dennis 🙂 Perfect way to start 2023 as engaged and now this year wedding planning is coming along. The wedding planning hasn’t been smooth sailing as it’s a lot of money these days! It’s been an up and down rollercoaster to say the least! Not to put a damper on it though as we are now very excited about it and we are now getting married on the 23rd May 2025! We can’t wait! I could go into so much more detail about all of this, but maybe I will save that for another blog post. Wedding dress shopping begins this Sunday (16th June!!) and lots of things are all coming together now which is so exciting!
Work life updates
So I think last time I spoke briefly on my blog about work life and how I possibly wanted to look into the role of a clinical nurse specialist. However, I did go for a promotion on my own ward as a Sister and got the secondment for a year starting in September 2023. I am nearing the end of my year’s secondment and I have to say I am immensely proud of what I have achieved over this year and I have grown in confidence within my work and have learnt so much. There was a permanent position that came up, however I decided this wasn’t for me which I think has been the best decision. I tried it and like I have just said I am already proud of what I have achieved. I am in a different stage of my life at the moment, where I have been thinking long and hard of what I want. I really am wanting more of a work/life balance which allows me to have more time for myself outside of work. I feel at present in my current job there isn’t much of a balance and I am trying to find a way to change that so we will see what happens in future to see where I end up.
Countryside life
So me and Liam since 2020 where pretty much house hunting. In 2021 we racked up a lot of viewings of houses and got the ball rolling to finding our first home! It was a long process and lots of houses on the market at the time we didn’t fall in love with. I should say that looking back 2 houses that we actually put offers in for and didn’t get, I actually think happened for a reason. That reason being when we found our house we were are exactly where we needed to be. I was working a lot, so naturally it was Liam booking all the house viewings and some he actually went on his own to as I was working for some of them. I trusted his judgement though so if he didn’t like a house I certainly wouldn’t either. So Liam booked a viewing for this house in September 2021, he said to me later he was going to cancel it as he thought the location was too far for me to travel to work. Luckily he didn’t as when we saw it we knew it was the one for us! We put in our offer and I couldn’t believe when Liam phoned me at work saying our offer got accepted! All I can say after that was that it was pretty stressful trying to get in! We didn’t have any chain the house had been empty for 2 years, however it was originally a shared ownership house, but we were buying it in full so it was a lot of paperwork to sort! We eventually moved in April 2022 and we absolutely adore where we live and love our home. We live in a little village which is near to Winchester and on the outskirts of Southampton. I’ve lived previously more towards Southampton before and I can say where we live now doesn’t feel like Southampton it’s very quiet and very much out in the countryside which we just love! Life consists of going to farm shops, countryside walks and bike rides! It’s literally bliss! Here’s a little snapshot into our countryside life…











Other life updates
So mainly been spending my spare time when I have it delving into my hobbies that I love to do! When we got our house I was adamant I wanted to start doing piano lessons again and wanted to save up for a piano I always wanted and now I love playing on my white electric piano I have now. I went to a guy locally to us as it was quite convenient I could just walk to his house to have my lessons, unfortunately we didn’t gel so I no longer wanted to continue my lessons with him. I found a new teacher that I feel like I have already progressed much further with she gives me so much freedom as what I want to learn, so I really enjoy my lessons now. Funny how you enjoy it after actually learning songs you actually want to play! My other hobbies I’m still very much enjoying such as running and I still attend regularly to park runs which I have recently gained my 50th park run which makes me super proud! I often get really into park run and then I have a bit of a dip , but that’s life and I have to accept that sometimes I’m too busy to always attend. I am really into my reading era at the moment and have currently read 8 books so far this year which is great for me! So I expect I will do some more book reviews on here! I’m very much into my thrillers at the moment and have read some great books recently. Another thing I’ve been enjoying is that last Christmas me and Liam decided to get a joint National Trust membership! It’s great for us as we love walks and I love being out in nature and I quite often to stop to take pictures of flowers. We have only been to two so far, but are planning to make the most of our membership this year. I’ve literally only come back from Edinburgh last night seeing Taylor Swift on her Eras tour which was so amazing! I could talk for days about her but I won’t bore all you non-Swifties! Been seeing her in concert for years but this was her biggest yet and I just didn’t want her concert to end! Edinburgh is also such a great place to be and has such an amazing atmosphere I loved it! I really loved spending time with my friend Brad (massive Swiftie went to Speak Now with him which was the first TS concert we both went too and have since been obsessed with going to her shows!). I don’t often see him so it was really nice to catch up and obviously see Taylor again like we always do! I’ll leave again some photos here of recent things I have been up to…




















If you have made it this far I applaud you! Again I am sorry it has taken me so long to write another blog post, but I am glad I did! Thoroughly enjoyed writing on here again! I hope to not leave it so long next time! This was a bit of a whistle stop tour and a whirlwind of updates! I have so much more to say and so much more to write about! So I hope to continue this and I will see you at my next blog post!
Thank you so much for reading and visiting my scrapbook!
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